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On the English Class, Helen let us think about that:"Whether a boy will let his wife to be an international correspondent,and whether a girl will want to be an international correspondent,why?"

Most boys in our class said they wouldn't let thier wives take this kind of risk. Almost all the girls didn't want to be international correspondents. It seems to be a human nature that no one wants to be in danger.

General speaking, I won't let my wife to be an international correspondent. Because it's a dangerous job, I don't want my wife to be in danger. I don't want to lose her, because she is the person I treasure most.   But in one case, I'll let her do it——I'm the cameraman who works with her. When we're working, she reports news while I make a VCR or take some photos. And after work, we can take good care of each other. If she were in danger at some points, I would try my best to save her……Then the danger will not be as dangerous as the one she faces alone.

The most important point is not whether she will be safe or not,but is that whether we can be together,be with each other.   I think it's the thing that most people really care.

Helen let us have some discussion about gender differences in our English class. Well, I suddenly found out again that I really don't understand the women's thinking,ah ha,"women are unbelievable!"

Helen also introduced two songs to us:"When A Woman Loves A Man" and "When A Man Loves A Woman". These songs show the different actions that man and woman will take when they're falling in love. Love is unbelievable too! When you're involved in it, you'll try your best to hold it,to perfect it……because you know, in your heart, someone is the only one for you.

Then, Helen asked a question:"Will you choose a career woman or a house wife to be your wife?" It's rather a good question which urge men to consider what kind of women they want and urge women to think about what kind of wife they want to be. 

Here is my point of view——Who marries a career woman must be brave,he should have enough courage and endless love to stand by his wife. If I'm supposed to make the decision, I'll choose a career woman to be my wife: As a career woman,she'll need more support from me than a house wife does,especially when she meets some difficulties in pursuing her career. Although most of time,she just complains to let me know her pressure instead of asking me for any advice. But she really needs my comfort. When she cries for pressure or somewhat about work, my shoulders and my arms are the best things she wants at that time.     So,I'll choose the one who needs me most!!

There has been a little bit long time since I renewed my blog last time. I miss the feeling of writing something here, it's a kind of fulfillment.

This afternoon, Helen mentioned that we only had four weeks before the final exams. It means this semester will end soon. And we were told that some new teachers would come to teach us next term. Imagine that Helen will not teach us next semester, I'm depressed. I know I'll miss Helen very much,very much!

As I have said, Helen is a charming teacher and a good friend. It's my great honour to be her student. In my heart, she is a good friend more than a teacher and I can learn a lot from her. Helen is someone I can rely on. :)

Well, saying "see you" is to see you, people often comfort themselves like that. Helen said we would meet each other since we would be in the same campus. I know, I know, but……

Ok, don't worry, be happy. I will treasure the days that we have spent together, I promise.

Un, Helen, would you like a present?

Last Thursday, I burst into tears,twice…… Come on! What's the matter?!

Actually,at the very beginning of that night,everything seemed to be normal. Attended the dry run of the musical film,had a calculus class,and then went to the teachers' office to have a meeting of the student body of our school……When I came back dorm,less than an hour left before the power cut. Well, it's fine,it's fine,I have been busy like this after the May Day holiday.I can manage it, just ,just a little exhausted.

After finishing the little preparation for the next day, I went to bed and waited for the lights off. I prefer to sleep in the dark. Then Mum's call came——"How are you these days?" "Fine,Mum."I answered, with my eyes half closed.

"Why your voice sounds strange,uh?" "Nothing.I just feel tired,tired……even too tired to sleep."

"Why? Don't involve yourself in too much work,not all the things are up to you." "But I can't refuse to take my responsibility……Mum, I want to go home." "Just come back home next weekend,Ok?" "Well, fotget it,it's not necessary." Suddenly,my tears fell down……

I had to put down the phone to calm down.I'm not used to crying for a longer time. Washed my face with cool water, looked at myself in the mirror,well,I'm OK,I'm OK.

Yes,everything will go on well.

If you ask me:"What's your name?" I'll smile and answer:"Mars. M-A-R-S.Mars."

I like this name. And I'm very glad to share something related to this name with you.

Something written from a man's perspective; sometimes, I like thinking in that way. : )

"I'm a little shy, but I will say'I love you' loudly when we're saying goodbye to each other everyday.

I will never be late when I ask you out. And I will not be angry if you're late.

I will wake up a little earlier than you,while you fall asleep a little earlier than me.

I will remember the size of your shoes,your secret codes,and the things make you scary most.

I will never drink before driving,and I will remind you to fasten your seat-belt.

I will help you do some housework,everyday! And we can have a chat when we're doing the housework.

I will be willing to help others,with no reason.

I will keep my commitments.

When you tell me some jokes, I will smile or laugh.

If you catch a cold, I will go to hospital with you. And on our way home,I will buy an ice-cream to comfort you.

On the rainy days,when we're having a walk, I will tread water with carrying you on my back,smiling and say:"You can be a little heavier."

I will apologize if I make any mistake.

When we're shopping,if you like the skirts of the same style but not in the same colour, I will ask you to try all of them on.

I will often tell you:"I'm with you."

I like all the food you cook for me, and I will ask you to cook them every tomorrow.

When I'm having a check on the documents,I will keep eye contact with you since you're trying the new clothes on.

If I'm busy working,I will book the tickets for you and your parents.Then you can travel aboard.

I will tell you:"You can call me anytime,anywhere,just you want."

I will ask you not to save money,you can buy almost everything you want, I will pay them.

I will buy a raincoat which suits both of us,and put it away in our car.

I will draw a little tiger head as a autograph every so often when I leave some messages to you.

When there're conflicts with others, I will keep calm;explain my points of view instead of arguing with them.

I will teach you how to play roller-skating. You can rely on me,because I will be your"walking stick".

When we're playing chess, I will let you "replay" anytime.

When you're in insomnia, I will keep talking with you until you fall asleep.

Since I'm taller than you, if something is beyond your reach,let me get it for you.

I will talk the important things over with you. For example,the investment plan for next year,bringing the BBQ tools for picnic on weekends,and even the vegetables for dinner.

Although you have got a cold, I will use your glass.

I will call you and tell you excitedly:"The tropical fishes in my office have produced little fishes!"

I love you,without hesitancy,and I will never compare you with other women.

I will like everything you bought for me.

I will use the fragrance that matches the perfume you use.

If you can not twist the lid off the jar, I will manage it for you easily.

I will always be in touch with you, and then you can find me anytime.

I will comfort you if you're in the bad mood. And I'm willing to cry with you if you cry.

I will go out with you on weekends if it is available. And I will stick at counting the stars or waiting for sunrise with you,though I'm going to fall asleep.

No matter how busy I am,I will try best to finish all the tasks before 18:30,and drive you to have dinner at 19:00.

When we're shopping, I will carry all the bags with my right hand,and hold you in my left hand. I will pay everything you buy with credit cards of cheques consciously. I will never urge you to leave even dozing outside the fitting room when I'm waiting for you. 

If you want to have some coffee in order to stay up for working, I will change the cup of coffee to a glass of milk. And when you notice it, I will smile just like a child and say:"Well,I just want to have some coffee."

I will ask the family cook to stew some nutritious food for you every week. When you refuse to have it like a spoiled child, I will always persuade you to taste it patiently:"Come on,my dear."

I will get up at once when you pretend to be angry when I want to sleep a little longer. And I will make our bed as soon as I get up.

I will have "yum cha" with your parents every month."

In the writing class, I suddenly realized that our women teachers were really charming! Well, pretty women!

Our lovely "Quiet Stone", our dear Helen, they're graceful and attractive. I'm so glad to be their student. Having the classes which are taught by them seems to be a kind of enjoyment.

I'm busy attending the dry run of the musical film"The Fiddler On the Roof" these days. It took me more than 2 hours almost everyday. When the teacher told us that we could rest in turn, I felt relaxed.

It's really a challenging job. Everyone must be involved in the whole atmosphere of the play. And as a dub, I should  try my best to "produce" the voice that matches the actor's action. It almost drove me mad the first two days. I wanted to spend more time on study but I had to prepare the musical film. Every night when I came back to dormitory, it was nearly the time for power cut. I complained to mum, but I knew that the complaint wouldn't solve any problems. The right thing I should do is to make most of my available time.

So,when Helen asked me whether I was so busy that I didn't do well in the quiz, I smiled and said:"No, it's not the excuse." Right?

I'll lead you down the beach with my hands over your eyes, just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet. And if you like, I'll make a sand-castle for you, for us.

I'll propose to you as soon as I know you're the right person. "I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee that at some point,one or both of us are gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it the rest of my life. Because I know, in my heart,you're the only one for me."

Maybe I will wake you up at dawn, because I'm bursting to talk to you. Can't wait another minute,just to find out what you'll say.

Maybe I seldom express myself, but I'll let you know how much I love you. Maybe I'm not good at chat, but I'll listen carefully to every word you say.

"Mona Lisa Smile","National Treasure","Garfield" and "I,Robot".

I watched them again. So, by far, I've watched "Mona Lisa Smile" for 2 times,"Nationa Treasure" for 2 times,"Garfield" for 2 times,and "I,Robot" for 3 times. It's a little bit "crazy",right?  And the "crazier" thing is that "Mona Lisa Smile"and "I,Robot" made me cry again.Oh,come on!

"Mona Lisa Smile"                     (Julia Roberts)

"The Best Picture of the Year by far.'Mona Lisa Smile' will put a smile on your face,in your heart and in your mind."——David Sheehan, CBC-TV.

"'Mona Lisa Smile' will light you up with laughter and love."——Clay Smith,Access Hollywood.

I watched <I,Robot>again with mum last night. Push the "pause" button and explained the sentences to mum since I refused to watch the Chinese. I watched the film more carefully than I did on the class, and because of the correct English subtitles, I have noticed some more details and was deeply touched again.

Who can lend me the shoulder when I'm crying?

I seldom cry in front of others, I don't want them to see my tears. It seems like something deep in my heart is being exposed.

I know,some kinds of darkness are hiding inside my heart.

Ten years later,when I look back all the things that I've written these days,what will I feel?

Ten years later,maybe I'll be in Paris.And almost working flat out during the day time,going to different parties or having business dinners at nights except weekends……:) Maybe,maybe……

The song <I Have Never Been To Me>shocks me a lot,but its lyrics are too upset,so I change it from another perspective. :)

"Hey lady,you lady,everything must be fine.

You'll find your right man someday and he'll never make you cry.

Only letting you go is the best choice I can choose,I had known our love was almost changed but I couldn't make it back.

Oh, I've been to villages and the noisy places and everywhere I could hide,found my girl in a tiny shop while I looking all around.

I'm also working flat out and try to tell myself I could live without you. I've told you fairy-tale,but I've never been your prince. 

Please lady,please lady,moving on your way.

Though I'm not someone in your heart who can hold you night and day.

I looked deep into your eyes,there won't be any place for me,and I'm not the man who can make you smile when you see me come along.

Oh, I've been to Swiss and the charming places and everywhere I could run,took the hand of my beloved girl and we made love in the sun.

I seldom racked my brain recalling something that I used to pretend to forget. Hey,lady,I've told you fairy-tale,but I've never been your prince.

Sometimes I tried to think about everything we owned when we were falling in love. But I finally realized I never knew how to make you be my wife.

I turned to our best friends and they figured out the way I could let you understand. Hey,lady,I've told you fairy-tale,but I've never been your prince."

I,a shy guy.

I used to describe myself as a confident person. But in fact,I have realized that I'm not. When getting along with others,I am calm enough to hide and protect myself. When I'm alone,I tend to be another myself.

Most of my friends used to regard me as a cool person when they were not familiar with me. Maybe because I really prefer to stay alone,especially confront with "strangers".

I suddenly feel that I seem to need someone to rely on,or,need someone rely on me. So I want to write something to my future beloved lover.

"I don't know when I will find you,and don't know where we will meet,but I think I can recognize you from the crowd.And I know you'll find me too.

You're my another half circle,you're my soul-mate.I'll let you know how much you mean to me.

I'm not sure whether I can give you happiness,because mine is also held in your hand.

I promise I'll be with you and love you more and more each day as time goes by.So, don't be afraid,I'll never let you feel lonely."

"If the world were attacked,just afford me a telephone-box to change.

Unfolding my cloak to fly with you,if your mood will never be 'ill'.

Who has transfused this uesless power to me? Why do you really want to leave?

Rescuing the world is a piece of cake,but why I can do nothing to make our love remain?

I can dig in ground or fly, but I'm not the man who lives in your mind.

You uesd to give me credit for my strength,for I always carried all the bags.

And I'll protect you day and night,stay with you side by side.

No monster can frighten me,but why I'm afraid to see your tears?

Involved in this embarrasement, I have no one to ask for help, and who needs a superman that can't save himself?

Although there's a perfect ending of rescuing the world, I only have the chance to see our love off.

If the world were attacked,who can let my power end?"