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2/28/2006 emotional & physical cheatingIn the listening class on this morning, we listened to and watched an interesting short TV program. It was about what a girl or a woman want.
Five women of different background were interviewed in the program, they were asked to discuss the question that whether the emotional cheating was more serious than the physical cheating.
Well, it seems not difficult to answer, most of the five women agreed woth that. Actually, I do think so.
One of the interviewees said that:"Emotional cheating is a real step in the heart." It's not only thinking about the others while dating with another one, but also will lead to physical cheating someday, somehow. Some people may say:" Well, I admit that I'm attracted by some other person, but I didn't take any action. So it's Ok, it's much better than physical cheating." But the emotional ones really hurt. And it can have no chance to recover.
Maybe there're some reasonable reasons for emotional or physical cheating, such as"loneliness turns a blind eye", or just for fun. And if I were married, would I be attracted by another woman who is not my wife?
What do you think, Uh? 6/10/2005 TogetherOn the English Class, Helen let us think about that:"Whether a boy will let his wife to be an international correspondent,and whether a girl will want to be an international correspondent,why?" Most boys in our class said they wouldn't let thier wives take this kind of risk. Almost all the girls didn't want to be international correspondents. It seems to be a human nature that no one wants to be in danger. General speaking, I won't let my wife to be an international correspondent. Because it's a dangerous job, I don't want my wife to be in danger. I don't want to lose her, because she is the person I treasure most. But in one case, I'll let her do it——I'm the cameraman who works with her. When we're working, she reports news while I make a VCR or take some photos. And after work, we can take good care of each other. If she were in danger at some points, I would try my best to save her……Then the danger will not be as dangerous as the one she faces alone. The most important point is not whether she will be safe or not,but is that whether we can be together,be with each other. I think it's the thing that most people really care. 5/15/2005 "I Will……"Something written from a man's perspective; sometimes, I like thinking in that way. : )
"I'm a little shy, but I will say'I love you' loudly when we're saying goodbye to each other everyday. I will never be late when I ask you out. And I will not be angry if you're late. I will wake up a little earlier than you,while you fall asleep a little earlier than me. I will remember the size of your shoes,your secret codes,and the things make you scary most. I will never drink before driving,and I will remind you to fasten your seat-belt. I will help you do some housework,everyday! And we can have a chat when we're doing the housework. I will be willing to help others,with no reason. I will keep my commitments. When you tell me some jokes, I will smile or laugh. If you catch a cold, I will go to hospital with you. And on our way home,I will buy an ice-cream to comfort you. On the rainy days,when we're having a walk, I will tread water with carrying you on my back,smiling and say:"You can be a little heavier." I will apologize if I make any mistake. When we're shopping,if you like the skirts of the same style but not in the same colour, I will ask you to try all of them on. I will often tell you:"I'm with you." I like all the food you cook for me, and I will ask you to cook them every tomorrow. When I'm having a check on the documents,I will keep eye contact with you since you're trying the new clothes on. If I'm busy working,I will book the tickets for you and your parents.Then you can travel aboard. I will tell you:"You can call me anytime,anywhere,just you want." I will ask you not to save money,you can buy almost everything you want, I will pay them. I will buy a raincoat which suits both of us,and put it away in our car. I will draw a little tiger head as a autograph every so often when I leave some messages to you. When there're conflicts with others, I will keep calm;explain my points of view instead of arguing with them. I will teach you how to play roller-skating. You can rely on me,because I will be your"walking stick". When we're playing chess, I will let you "replay" anytime. When you're in insomnia, I will keep talking with you until you fall asleep. Since I'm taller than you, if something is beyond your reach,let me get it for you. I will talk the important things over with you. For example,the investment plan for next year,bringing the BBQ tools for picnic on weekends,and even the vegetables for dinner. Although you have got a cold, I will use your glass. I will call you and tell you excitedly:"The tropical fishes in my office have produced little fishes!" I love you,without hesitancy,and I will never compare you with other women. I will like everything you bought for me. I will use the fragrance that matches the perfume you use. If you can not twist the lid off the jar, I will manage it for you easily. I will always be in touch with you, and then you can find me anytime. I will comfort you if you're in the bad mood. And I'm willing to cry with you if you cry. I will go out with you on weekends if it is available. And I will stick at counting the stars or waiting for sunrise with you,though I'm going to fall asleep. No matter how busy I am,I will try best to finish all the tasks before 18:30,and drive you to have dinner at 19:00. When we're shopping, I will carry all the bags with my right hand,and hold you in my left hand. I will pay everything you buy with credit cards of cheques consciously. I will never urge you to leave even dozing outside the fitting room when I'm waiting for you. If you want to have some coffee in order to stay up for working, I will change the cup of coffee to a glass of milk. And when you notice it, I will smile just like a child and say:"Well,I just want to have some coffee." I will ask the family cook to stew some nutritious food for you every week. When you refuse to have it like a spoiled child, I will always persuade you to taste it patiently:"Come on,my dear." I will get up at once when you pretend to be angry when I want to sleep a little longer. And I will make our bed as soon as I get up. I will have "yum cha" with your parents every month." 5/11/2005 To My Future Beloved LoverI'll lead you down the beach with my hands over your eyes, just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet. And if you like, I'll make a sand-castle for you, for us. I'll propose to you as soon as I know you're the right person. "I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee that at some point,one or both of us are gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it the rest of my life. Because I know, in my heart,you're the only one for me." Maybe I will wake you up at dawn, because I'm bursting to talk to you. Can't wait another minute,just to find out what you'll say. Maybe I seldom express myself, but I'll let you know how much I love you. Maybe I'm not good at chat, but I'll listen carefully to every word you say. 4/25/2005 To My Future Beloved LoverI suddenly feel that I seem to need someone to rely on,or,need someone rely on me. So I want to write something to my future beloved lover. "I don't know when I will find you,and don't know where we will meet,but I think I can recognize you from the crowd.And I know you'll find me too. You're my another half circle,you're my soul-mate.I'll let you know how much you mean to me. I'm not sure whether I can give you happiness,because mine is also held in your hand. I promise I'll be with you and love you more and more each day as time goes by.So, don't be afraid,I'll never let you feel lonely."
4/22/2005 <Superman>"If the world were attacked,just afford me a telephone-box to change. Unfolding my cloak to fly with you,if your mood will never be 'ill'. Who has transfused this uesless power to me? Why do you really want to leave? Rescuing the world is a piece of cake,but why I can do nothing to make our love remain? I can dig in ground or fly, but I'm not the man who lives in your mind. You uesd to give me credit for my strength,for I always carried all the bags. And I'll protect you day and night,stay with you side by side. No monster can frighten me,but why I'm afraid to see your tears? Involved in this embarrasement, I have no one to ask for help, and who needs a superman that can't save himself? Although there's a perfect ending of rescuing the world, I only have the chance to see our love off. If the world were attacked,who can let my power end?" 4/18/2005 "Life began again,the day you took my hand."Today, we have learned <How I Discovered Words>,which is written by a great woman,Helen Keller.Her life has changed since her dear teacher came to reveal all things to her,and more than all things else,to love her. At that moment, some sentences came into my mind:"I guess they understand, how lonely life has been. But life began again, the day you took my hand." Actually,it's the lyrics of a love song<And I Love You So>. I like it very much. It seems not to describe the love that causes a great sensation,but gives me the feeling like having found the home in each other. When I find my lover someday,I promise I will be with my lover forever.We'll share our laughter and tears,hand in hand,side by side.
4/14/2005 "Sunny"I was deeply moved by the film <I.Robot>, especially by the smart robot "Sunny". If he is a real man,it must be very wonderful. Actually, I almost treat him like a humanbeing. As he mentioned,he was "someone", not "something". When I was watching this film, I asked myself: "If I were a robot,what would I do?" "Try my best to protect my owner,do everything I can or she ask me to do,company with her when she doesn't want to travel with anyone else……Maybe,maybe,and my voice may be like Sunny's,gentle and soft……It seems to be all right to be a kind robot who has a little bit emotion. Always be with the owner if she needs,learn to be kind ,brave and know what is love from her……” It looked like a satisfactory answer. But if we was really robots,will we be sadder when our hearts lost any feeling? Fortunately, I am a human being.
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